Monday, November 21, 2011
Friday, November 11, 2011
11/11/11
What would you wish for if you were given the chance to make just one wish? Would you wish to give your wish away? Would you make a wish that the wish of someone else would come true? Would you create a wish that could change the lives of hundreds of people you don't even know?Lauren made just that kind of wish ... and today, it comes true.
Lauren was a wish-maker. She wished on first and falling stars, lucky clovers, dandelion seeds, coins in wells or fountains, lucky pennies, eyelashes on your cheek, necklace clasps that had rotated to the front, birthday candles, "bumps" on the head, feet raised over railroad tracks, and numbers that repeated in sequence on dates or time like 2:22 or 11:11. We get 12 repeated dates a year ... 1/1, 2/2, 3/3, 4/4, .... on up through 12/12. But, just how often do you get 11/11/11!? Today is simply a lucky, lucky day. Lauren would make sure of it.
So, we have too -- we've done all we can to make her wish a reality. Today, her book (the means to her wish) "Happily Ever After ... The Power of Perspective" is available on line -- and, as she wished, the proceeds will return through The Living Lauren's Legacy foundation to her favorite charities which will benefit thousands of wish-seekers. Every reader will learn how Lauren saw her life as a "Happily Ever After" and how in such short years, she was able to have such a powerful influence ... and that will help make YOUR wishes come true, just like she wished for.
http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail/2642848
The book turned out much more expensive than we had hoped, but it's a beautiful photo book (572 to be exact) to coincide with Lauren's writings and the expanded addition of her mom's view from close by.
We'll post segments of the book on the blog over the next few weeks and provide a text only edition as well.
Happy WISH COME TRUE day ... for you, for us, and for our angel Lauren!
With love from all of the David Webb family
David, Melodie, Taylor and Heather, Sara, Carlie and Lauren
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Happy 9/10/11
The fun nature of today's date would have gone over all of our heads, if not for Lauren. She wouldn't have missed another reason to celebrate! When else will you have the opportunity to 'party' over such a date? It's not the same without her, so we didn't celebrate the way SHE would have, but we did stop to acknowledge it's a fun date anyway.She's got that effect on us. We notice things differently than we otherwise would, simply because she always did. We see more to be grateful for and more to celebrate and more to enjoy.
So enjoy this day and all of your own reasons to enjoy, celebrate, and be grateful, along with the fact that this particular date can't happen for another hundred years!
Monday, July 4, 2011
Happy 4th!!
Another 4th of July --
It is hard to believe that five years has passed away since being diagnosed with cancer. It's also hard to believe that it is possible that I hate that word now more than I did even then. Hind sight IS 20/20 vision, however, - so not really knowing what lied ahead couldn't allow for as much dread as knowing the course it put us on.
Even so, Lauren is such a profound privilege, that looking back I would still take the cancer if I knew it was the only way to have Lauren in our life. For reasons I don't think I'll ever understand in this lifetime, ... it was a package deal.
And, interestingly enough, ... that was amongst the first logical thoughts that came to my mind that dreaded night on the 1st of July 2006 when the words "your daughter has a tumor" were spoken. I recall feeling as though every ounce of blood was drained from my body because I couldn't move my extremities or form a logical thought. Quietly, and over and over again I began saying to myself "I know in Whom I have trusted." And, sometimes to this day, it is the only thought that makes any sense or calms my lonely heart.
At the time, it was the only thought I could form. And, it has proved most sustaining.
After we told Lauren, shed some tears, and watched her faithful spirit to fight, the next sustaining thought was how much of a privilege she is. And, I promised those in Whom I trust that because I trusted Them and knew what an honor it is to be her mom, I would find the battle a privilege too.
Easier said than done, I suppose. I didn't care for the battle. It was excruciating. I would give anything to remove the battle that ensued over the next three and a half years along with the wounds and scars left behind, but I wouldn't trade a moment of her life for anything either. She simply IS a privilege.
Our loving Father has ways we don't understand or don't want. But, He also had Lauren in mind for my family . . . and even my best dreams and wishes couldn't have conceived of such a gift.
We'll be on the parade route without her this year. And, I'm not going to pretend that doesn't hurt. But in her honor, and in honor of They who gave me the comforting and sustaining reminders of those realities, I'll just keep reminding myself that the joy and privilege she (and even that excruciating and unwanted battle to keep her) is forever.
It is hard to believe that five years has passed away since being diagnosed with cancer. It's also hard to believe that it is possible that I hate that word now more than I did even then. Hind sight IS 20/20 vision, however, - so not really knowing what lied ahead couldn't allow for as much dread as knowing the course it put us on.
Even so, Lauren is such a profound privilege, that looking back I would still take the cancer if I knew it was the only way to have Lauren in our life. For reasons I don't think I'll ever understand in this lifetime, ... it was a package deal.
And, interestingly enough, ... that was amongst the first logical thoughts that came to my mind that dreaded night on the 1st of July 2006 when the words "your daughter has a tumor" were spoken. I recall feeling as though every ounce of blood was drained from my body because I couldn't move my extremities or form a logical thought. Quietly, and over and over again I began saying to myself "I know in Whom I have trusted." And, sometimes to this day, it is the only thought that makes any sense or calms my lonely heart.
At the time, it was the only thought I could form. And, it has proved most sustaining.
After we told Lauren, shed some tears, and watched her faithful spirit to fight, the next sustaining thought was how much of a privilege she is. And, I promised those in Whom I trust that because I trusted Them and knew what an honor it is to be her mom, I would find the battle a privilege too.
Easier said than done, I suppose. I didn't care for the battle. It was excruciating. I would give anything to remove the battle that ensued over the next three and a half years along with the wounds and scars left behind, but I wouldn't trade a moment of her life for anything either. She simply IS a privilege.
Our loving Father has ways we don't understand or don't want. But, He also had Lauren in mind for my family . . . and even my best dreams and wishes couldn't have conceived of such a gift.
We'll be on the parade route without her this year. And, I'm not going to pretend that doesn't hurt. But in her honor, and in honor of They who gave me the comforting and sustaining reminders of those realities, I'll just keep reminding myself that the joy and privilege she (and even that excruciating and unwanted battle to keep her) is forever.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
Happy Valentines Day!
Lauren on Valentines Day (with her Valentine box) in first grade / 2001Happy Valentines Day!!
Lauren celebrated LOVE every day of her life. She knew the NOUN AND the VERB so well. She is just a master of it. So, Valentines was a big, big day to her .... even in the toughest days of her illness. During those days, it wasn't just her family and friends who received Valentines, it was fellow patients whom she had never met. Hundreds of Valentines were delivered in her 3 1/2 year battle with cancer with a special measure of the love she so sweetly possessed and expressed so well. Thousands of Valentines graced her short mortal life.
In that honor, I had "wished" to deliver the Valentine of her completed book "Happily Ever After: The Power of Perspective" today. Despite my sincere desires and efforts otherwise, I have been unable to complete it. I have no idea when or even if it will be finished.
I remain determined to honor her life and the love she filled every day with . . .
I'll either find a different way to do it or I'll keep laboring and hope to be able to announce the completion soon.
May you fill Valentines Day with Love as a VERB . . . and do it deeply.
Lauren's mom.
In that honor, I had "wished" to deliver the Valentine of her completed book "Happily Ever After: The Power of Perspective" today. Despite my sincere desires and efforts otherwise, I have been unable to complete it. I have no idea when or even if it will be finished.
I remain determined to honor her life and the love she filled every day with . . .
I'll either find a different way to do it or I'll keep laboring and hope to be able to announce the completion soon.
May you fill Valentines Day with Love as a VERB . . . and do it deeply.
Lauren's mom.
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